A Little About Confidence and Drag Queens.

Everybody needs confidence!

I do not care who you are, or what you are doing, you need confidence.

everyday i say something to myself along the lines of....
"DANG! I am so good looking"
or
"WOW! I am the coolest person in the world"

I cannot perfectly define, or find a definition of confidence..
but basically it is believing in yourself.

It is being proud of who you are, setting goals, standards, believing in what you say...what you can do.

I know that a lot of people have problem with confidence, and i know we all have rough days.

It hurts me to hear when someone thinks that they are not good enough, or not interesting enough. Especially someone close to me.

Every single one of you out there are amazing in your own way. You are living, you are strong. You are worthy of everything you want, every dream you have, every person you want to talk to.

YOU are beautiful.

Over years I have built up my confidence...basically because i learned to mostly not care what people think.

If you are not worried about being judged, it opens up SO MANY doors!

Fake it till you make it...
when you are walking down the street, through the mall, into school..
some up with a mantra you can repeat in your head..
say something like
"I can do this"
"A am completely amazing"
"I have interesting things to say"
"I am very gorgeous"

even if you do not believe it, keep it playing in your head..and eventually you will at least start acting like you believe it, which will bring you full circle to actually believing it.

Just be proud of yourselves.
There is no reason not to be.

Now, about drag queens.

Let me just say, these wonderful people should start a mentoring program for young girls.
Can you imagine how much confidence you have to have to be a drag queen?
To walk out there in public, dressing like the opposite gender, having people stare, and judge, but still having the strength, and determination to know that you are that you are extremely good looking.
you need BUCKETS of confidence.

If you see a drag queen, you should be saying to yourself "wow! i want to be that amazing"

and you can be, just believe in yourself.

BE CONFIDENT!
You are beautiful and wonderful, people do love you.
I cannot say this and stress it enough.
Just go out there and rock.

Next time you walk out the door to face the day,
think to yourself
"wow, i am so wonderful, everyone i talk to today will be lucky to talk to me"
and just smile.

That should give you an instant confidence boost.

Have a greatlovelyawesomespectacular day!